Your choice of partner is one of the most important choices in your life. After all, you’ll be spending thousands of hours, days, and experiences with this person.
Rather than occupying your time with the wrong person who can ruin your life, you should leave the space open for the right person to come in.
But just because you’re leaving the space open doesn’t mean that you should just be passive about things. You could start by describing your partner so that you know who you’re looking for, and from there take some action to find them.
It might take months or years to find your partner (soulmate material), but in the meantime you should continue making new friends and continue improving yourself in all areas of your life. The more you improve yourself, the more deserving you’ll be.
Don’t strive for number of conquests; it’s a waste of time and it’s very risky. It’s a losing strategy that society promotes because it sells; it’s very profitable for many industries and institutions. But in reality it’s meaningless and it ruins lives.
True happiness comes with true love. When your soulmate shows up, you’ll know.
”If you love life, don't waste time, for time is what life is made up of. ― Bruce Lee
”It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society. ― Jiddu Krishnamurti
”People destined to meet will do so, apparently by chance, at precisely the right moment. ― Ralph Waldo Emerson
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